Thursday, December 29, 2011

Coaching Through an Actor’s Emotion

I came across this quote on an actor’s blog but the book was not referenced… so I cannot give credit where credit is due.  All I can say is, it did inspire me as a awareness coach & life coach to write about that quote:

“Brecht wanted the audience to know his plays weren't reality while Stanislavski wanted his audience to believe they WERE reality.”

“Brecht believed that a play should not cause the audience to identify emotionally with the characters or actions onstage, but should instead provoke rational self-reflection and a critical view of the actions on the stage. To do this Brecht employed the use of techniques that remind the audience that the play is a representation of reality and not reality itself. By really highlighting the constructed nature of the theatrical event, Brecht hoped to communicate that the audience's reality was equally constructed and, as such, was changeable.”

“Stanislavski on the other hand focused on the development of artistic truth onstage by teaching actors to "live the part" during performance (the first method actor really). Stanislavski proposed that actors study and experience subjective emotions and feelings and manifest them to audiences by physical and vocal means in order to convey reality onstage.”

These quotes took me into my own emotion on how I project myself to my audience and/or clients when I am speaking or teaching. How I come across in the way I talk and the way I evoke my emotion to my audience.

In a way, coaching is like directing someone’s life. In a talk with your audience or client, you can tell them how they should feel or think or you can evoke from them their own feelings and emotions.

I remember when I was in my first coaching class, I brought a list of coaches that had inspired me and I also included friends who were motivational speakers, story tellers and actors. I so wanted to be like them. Coming from an acting background myself, I knew I had a good stage presence. I knew I had no problem being heard in a large room or on stage as I was able to project my voice from a stage to across the room. I knew how to be present with an audience and I know when I had them and when I did not.

What I found out, as a Awareness Coach in front of my audience, is that I needed to be more than an actor. Instead of just delivering my message, I found that I had to go in even deeper and actually get a transformation to happen. To have my audience feel the part or to have them realize what they needed to get out of my lecture, I could not just talk to them. I had to pull from them my play of my story, my talk and my experience. To engage them in their own thoughts and feelings, to collect their own insights and have the shift that can happen when talking to a student or an audience.

So when teaching to an audience or to an individual (who is also your audience) within a conversation, are we just actors playing a role to invoke a reaction or are we Life Coaches who can penetrate even deeper to an audience then Brecht and Stanislavski. Do we cause a transformation within our audience or just evoke a feeling, that is still only at a service level both mentally and physically, instead of tapping into the core of who your audience really is and what it was that brought them to your lecture, class or coaching section?

Another quote, “We are all actors on stage projecting our life as we see it to be.” How then do we see our life as coaches and how do we project ourselves to our audience? How does your audience relate, take away and transform their emotions and their thoughts from what you just taught, or evoked from them that they did not see before?

When speaking to an audience, as a Life Coach, are you coming from Brecht or Stanislavski in your delivery or from your training as a Life Coach? Causing a transformation within your audience is good through an actor’s eyes as well as a Life Coach’s eyes because it is the delivery and emotion that will engage your audience or student.

So the next time, when you are on that call to a student or on a platform speaking to an audience, be in check of what you are telling them. Are you teaching them to just feel your words or are you looking to create a transformation within them? To have them feel the shift from within themselves and to take with them the messages from your spoken words and actions.

Be an actor on stage as well as a Life Coach, speaking from your own emotion, so that your audience can relate to you.

 With Aloha,

Marc Tolliver/ Awareness Coach /Life Coach / Business Coach
http://lifecreationsedu.com/aboutMarc.html

Monday, December 12, 2011

"Be who you are and say what you feel" - Dr. Seuss All about truth....

Aloha... How true is this for speaking your truth. "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't Matter and those who matter don't mind" a quote from Dr. Seuss

Speaking your Truth is not about what people will think of you after your say your words but to get your feelings out and to express your self without expecting a reaction from the other person but to free up your own space and to let people see the real you or the thought you may have that makes seance to you that you share.

With "Aloha"
Marc Tolliver LCE
Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator
marct@lifecreatonsedu.com
www.lifecreationsedu.com

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Threw the breath of "Aloha" from you to another, Also lies your truth

Aloha... On Maui Hawaii  the first thing I was taught when I arrived to the island was that, Threw the breath of "Aloha" from you to another, Also lies your truth in welcoming a person into your life. For Aloha is the first breath of life.


What ever your truth is that is what Aloha is, the one single breath of life that is given to another so freely and lovingly. With out thought or holding back but to freely give the breath of life to another  to share.

What is your truth? Who can you share the breath of Aloha. So you can share your life with another.




With "Aloha"
Marc Tolliver LCE
Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator
marct@lifecreatonsedu.com
www.lifecreationsedu.com

" Hui " a Hawaiian word for a group of people coming together to create a grater good...

" Hui " a Hawaiian word for people coming together to create a grater good for there business, life or family with in there community. At Life Creations Edu. we believe in a Community Transforming Humanity. Just like the Hawaiian word Hui.

Who could be in your Hui?
work, community, family or life.











With Aloha, Marc Tolliver
Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator
marct@lifecreationsedu.com
www.lifecreationsedu.com

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

"Aloha" Who am I? I wear many wigs... How many wigs do you wear?

Aloha Everyone, As a Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator with Life Creations Edu. I have a unique way of blending life coaching with business training & Salon business training.
Marc Tolliver hairstylist
(the other wig)
I joined up with Life Creations Edu. in 2009 as an independent contractor with the company of exceptional coaches from all over the country & Canada and now Hawaii. (me)

I have been a professional hairstylist and educator, in the hair and spa industry, for the past 30 years. I now wear many wigs as well as being a life coach and educator for Life Creations Edu. I am still currently an independent hairstylist on Maui, Hawaii,where I have Lava 405 Hair Studio, VIP Lava Lounge.

I also believe just for me as a hairdresser to stay in the salon industry as a hairstylist and a salon owner as well as a educator and awareness coach / life coach to still be in the know of being with a real client in the salon as well as what a hairstylist and salon business owner will be confronted on as an every day bases in there own salon.

As a former Paul Mitchell associate and national educator, I have cut and styled hair, in Chicago, California, Maui, Hawaii and in resorts, theaters, for photographers, and fashion runway shows as a Platform Hair Artist, a fashion consultant and I have served as a judge for fashion and hair shows.

I am currently affiliated with the: Kihei–Wailea Rotary, Maui Chamber of Commerce, and Kihei Community Association. He is active in community service and has donated his time and energy to many community fund raisers. June 15, 2005, I was awarded the 2005 Distinguished Rotarian Award by the Kihei-Wailea Rotary Club.

I love what I do and hold so much passion as a awareness coach/life coach/educator as well as a hair stylist/salon owner. I aways try to remember and to realize my thought of being weak comes from my truth, in that truth lies my "Power"

Where do you set your bar in life and career, what will it take to get you to that next level in our own personal life and your professional life, what ever that is for you....

With Aloha, Marc Tolliver
Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator
marct@lifecreationsedu.com
www.lifecreationsedu.com

quote from: Marc Tolliver LCE


My awarness of my thought of being week comes from my truth, in that truth lies my "Power" quote from: Marc Tolliver LCE


With Aloha, Marc Tolliver
 Awareness Coach / Life Coach / Educator
marct@lifecreationsedu.com
www.lifecreationsedu.com